Bondage Tips for Beginners
People involved in kinky sex are more sexually healthy. Plus, one out of every five American adults is into kinky sex. Bondage affects human health for good and is customary in more bedrooms than you might expect. That's not surprising, because creativity is always an asset. What's better than using some handcuffs to make your sex life more satisfying? It doesn't mean using handcuffs is the only way of adding some spice to your sex life. There is a never-ending list of things that you can try. However, if you are a beginner, go slow, things can become overwhelming if not done rightly. Moreover, the use of restrains on the bed may sound intimidating at first, so it is vital to know the ins and outs of bondage sex.
Thus, to help neophytes understand the craft of bondage sex, Peekaboo You has brought a beginner's guide to bondage.
Thorough talks about the comfort level
Just like communication forms the building blocks of a positive relationship, discussing and sharing thoughts effectively also serves as the basis of a healthy sexual life. Communication becomes even more essential when it's the time of introducing something fresh into your bedroom. Because you don't want to do something that your partner might not like, and end up having a feeling of regret. Hence, thorough talks about you and your companion's inclination towards something sexually, and the boundaries you both are ready to go are essential.
Safe Word
Choosing a word you can use to tell your partner it is becoming too much to handle is mandatory before engaging in any BDSM action. The safe word shouldn't be something that you cry out loud during sex, usually. For example, one may personally like to cry out "BATMAN!". And if you are moving towards some hardcore stuff like gagging, choose a safe action.
Open Mind
Bondage sex is a different world than vanilla sex. Everything about it is sexy and passionate so, make sure you are fit to go in the realm of some erotic bedroom action. Have an open mind, ensure that you are comfortable, but open to your partner's interests. It might take time to get used to the likes of blindfolds, handcuffs, and other stuff, but it is worthwhile.
Toys
Once you have reviewed all the above points, it's time to get some sex toys! There is a vast range of bondage sex toys available in the market. You will discover items you want to buy immediately from blindfolds and tickle feather to restrains and more. And it's great to have a diverse BDSM toy collection. You will be able to pick toys according to the evening mood. Below are some gadgets that you can put in your nightstand right away:
While buying bondage toys, don't skip lubes. You cannot have satisfying bondage sex without lubes. Your romantic session will eventually turn into a hot, hardcore bedroom action, and lubes will make sure that the penetrative sex goes smoothly. However, pick the lubes according to your sex toys built material. Like, with silicone-based toys, the use of water-based lubes is advised.
When you are done buying the toys, and the lubes, you are ready for some steamy, hot, kinky sex. But go soft initially, start with some light spanks to get things going, and with toys began with blindfolds. Then increase the pace slowly, from gentle spanks shift towards mid-core, but save the hardcore stuff for the dessert. And when the time is right, unleash yourself and make the evening memorable.
